I was talking with an old friend. We were talking about dreaming and what it is that he wanted. He said, “I don’t know what I want. Isn’t that sad?”
I said, “No! That’s normal.”
He started asking about business opportunities and which direction should he go. Those of you who know me that I cringe at the word “should.”
Beyond that, it’s about being aware of what your dream is.
Let’s say that you’re in a candy store and someone asks what you want. You’ll probably look around the candy store and think that you’ll want candy.
It will take a huge amount of focus to think about something else. To think about cheesecake or tiramisu.
To start dreaming, you have to leave the candy store of your mind.
Think about what you want. Look beyond what is immediately around you.
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After you get into a project or a New Year’s resolution, how are you measuring your progress?
A lot of people think that measurement might not be necessary. That the only thing that matters is crossing the finish line. Then May comes around and their resolution or project has failed.
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If you’ve spent any time in business, you may have heard of the 80/20 rule, also known as the Pareto Principle.
This initially discovered by Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, who first noticed in 1896 that 80% of Italy’s land was owned by 20% of the population. When he compared this to other countries, he found nearly the same distribution!
This application soon made its way over to business where it was discovered that many situations followed the Pareto Principle.
When you have a deliverable, (whether it’s for a project, a New Year’s resolution, or a change in your life), you’re going to have a timeline. It may be for a boss, a coworker, or even yourself!
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For today’s Quick Win, I wanted to talk about the meaning of the word “win.”
Win comes from the old Germanic which means to subdue and take possession. That’s what I mean when I say to “Go out and Win your dreams, Today.”
It means to go out and TAKE possession of your dreams! It’s something that you have control over, to translate them into goals, and turn those goals into actionable items.
If I’m the first one to say it you, I say this with all respect: it’s not something you deserve. You only get what you earn! Are you willing to put in the work?
It’s been said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
We’ve all been there before, right? Maybe it’s the disappointing results from dating the same kinds people all the time. Or it could be the lackluster efforts from leading your team. Or even down to the low grades you get on your homework and tests.
As a coach, I want to tell you that this is actually a great thing!
Let me tell you about a metaphor I learned from the Marine Corps.
When you’re on the shooting range and you’re taking a bunch of shots, you always aim for the center of the target.
Here’s the thing, though: it’s not important to hit the center of the target right away.
What you want is a nice grouping.
There are a lot of variables that go into accuracy. If your shots are grouping nicely, then as a coach we can adjust your aim to get you hitting the center of the target.
Have you ever taken on a new project? How about a completely new hobby?
It can seem daunting, can’t it? When you’re standing on this end looking off into the distance. There are all of these moving pieces, all this complexity.
In the Marine Corps, we called this trying to play tennis with a football bat.
Oftentimes, it can seem so overwhelming that you just want to give up before you even start.
That’s happened to me before. I want to share what I did in order to overcome the initial burden of getting started. The great thing, too, is that these are the same things that can help accelerate your project!
I was 7 months out of the Marine Corps. I was living in a tiny room in my parent’s mobile home in Bozeman. I had just quit my fourth job. I was feeling pretty low. Pretty much the lowest I had ever felt.
I knew something needed to change.
I had just seen the value of celebrating your wins. I decided that I would start with something small: making my bed.
I’m always engaging in introspection to make sure that aligned with my best self, to achieve my best relationships, so that I can create my best wins in my life.
I came across this phrase and it resonated with me deeply:
I use my intellect to guide and direct my emotions.
Again: I use my intellect to guide and direct my emotions.
Ok, now I’m not saying that you have to become like Spock from Star Trek, devoid of emotions and only letting your life be guided by logic and intellect.
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The thought crossed my mind. What if there were an easier route to the top? Like a tram or a steady graded path.
But getting to the top changed my viewpoint.
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My grandpa tied a guide rope between the house and the barn. The guide rope wasn't there for before or after the storm. After all, once the snow had fallen, no matter how deep, they could see the barn and dig a path.
The rope was there to help guide them during the storm. In the face of such immense adversity, they couldn't just sit inside and hope the animals would be ok. They had to get out there and take care of the animals.
This got me thinking about the challenges I face in my life. I might not be faced with a literal storm (at least not most of the time), but there are definitely things that happen that make me want to stay in the comfort of my home.
What's my guide rope? What gets me through the storm?
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I thought that life was a series of events that I had no control over. That I could only react to it.
Then my dear friend, colleague, and coach showed me a different way of looking at things.
Once I shifted my perspective, my life changed dramatically for the better.
All of sudden, all of these things that I interpreted as tragedies became opportunities.
They weren't things that happened to me. They happened FOR me.
Once I was no longer the VICTIM of these events, I was able to go past the mindset of SURVIVE and truly begin to THRIVE!
How are you changing your perspective in order to accelerate your dreams?
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